小孩子不上学自己在家教可以吗?可以,但是当小孩子不上学怎么办?是我自己的责任吗?
小十点家 小十点 儿子,你怎么不上学?是不是跟老师有矛盾?你跟老师有矛盾?
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小十点的答案五花八门:
上学没有闹,自己一个人做不做。
他们早上不上学,其实是他们内心的煎熬和痛苦。这个痛苦,不是生病,而是不愿意继续上学。这种不舒服,需要别人去理解和帮忙,但是不愿意做。
他们已经很努力了,成绩就是上不去,为什么不愿意去学校?
小十点老师希望你不要有这种想法,我们当父母的,要允许孩子有这种感觉,但这种感觉很容易让孩子感觉很焦虑,如果孩子一直沉浸在这种焦虑的情绪中,那么孩子就没有办法发挥出自己的潜能,也就失去了学习的动力。
在这里,小十点老师希望每一位家长都能冷静下来,不要让自己的情绪,影响到孩子的情绪,不要让孩子感觉到,因为情绪是控制不了的。在这种情绪下,你如何去教育孩子,怎么去跟孩子沟通,是很难的。
你的教育方法有问题,也许可以试试“3T原则”。
1、共情关注(Tsentment)
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